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Women's Mental Health: Signs You're Making Progress

By Dr. Anil Kapoor • 6/14/2025


I got an email last week from a reader that stopped me in my tracks. They wrote: "I feel like nobody actually understands what this is like."

I want to try.

What to Try This Week

This is where things get interesting — and where most generic advice falls short.

When I was in training, my supervisor said something that I still think about: "People don't come to therapy because they're broken. They come because they're stuck." There's a crucial difference.

The Nuance Nobody Mentions

This is where things get interesting — and where most generic advice falls short.

The approach I recommend to most clients follows this sequence:

Week 1-2: Awareness. Don't try to change anything. Just notice when it happens. What triggered it? What were you doing? What time of day? Track it in your phone.

Week 3-4: Experimentation. Try one new coping strategy each week. See what resonates. Discard what doesn't.

Week 5-8: Consistency. Take the strategies that worked and build them into your daily routine. Attach them to existing habits (after brushing teeth, during commute, before bed).

Ongoing: Adjustment. What works changes over time. Stay flexible. Give yourself permission to try new approaches.

What I've Seen Work

I want to be careful here because this gets oversimplified a lot.

The World Health Organization estimates that this affects approximately 1 in 4 people globally at some point in their lives. If you're reading this, the math says several of your close friends are dealing with something similar — they just haven't told you.

The Research Perspective

This is where things get interesting — and where most generic advice falls short.

When I was in training, my supervisor said something that I still think about: "People don't come to therapy because they're broken. They come because they're stuck." There's a crucial difference.

If I could leave you with one thing, it's this: you're not failing at feeling better. You're learning. And learning is messy and slow and frustrating. But it works, eventually, if you keep showing up.

NEHA is here to support your wellness journey, but we always encourage connecting with a licensed professional for ongoing mental health concerns.