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Trauma & Healing: What I Wish I Knew Sooner

By Maya Rodriguez, LPC • 10/28/2024


I got an email last week from a reader that stopped me in my tracks. They wrote: "I feel like nobody actually understands what this is like."

I want to try.

The Practical Part

Okay, let's get practical. Enough theory.

I remember my own experience with this vividly. It was a Tuesday — I don't know why I remember that — and I was sitting in my car in a parking lot, unable to go inside the grocery store. Not because of anything dramatic. Just... couldn't do it. If you've been there, you know the feeling.

Moving Forward

This is where things get interesting — and where most generic advice falls short.

Here's what the data actually says — and I'm going to be more nuanced than the clickbait headlines. A 2024 systematic review looked at 47 studies and found significant but modest effects. Translation: this stuff works, but it's not a miracle cure. You need to pair it with other strategies.

What to Try This Week

Okay, let's get practical. Enough theory.

I remember my own experience with this vividly. It was a Tuesday — I don't know why I remember that — and I was sitting in my car in a parking lot, unable to go inside the grocery store. Not because of anything dramatic. Just... couldn't do it. If you've been there, you know the feeling.

If I could leave you with one thing, it's this: you're not failing at feeling better. You're learning. And learning is messy and slow and frustrating. But it works, eventually, if you keep showing up.

NEHA is here to support your wellness journey, but we always encourage connecting with a licensed professional for ongoing mental health concerns.