Navigating Relationships & Communication During the Holidays
By Dr. Anil Kapoor • 10/19/2025
I've been thinking about this topic for weeks, and I keep coming back to the same thing.
The Research Perspective
A 2023 meta-analysis in the Journal of Clinical Psychology looked at this exact question. Here's what they found.
A friend of mine — a psychiatrist who's been practicing for 20 years — puts it this way: "Everyone thinks they're the only one dealing with this. The irony is that this universality is itself universal."
What to Try This Week
I want to be careful here because this gets oversimplified a lot.
Neuroscience has come a long way on this topic. We now know that the brain's neuroplasticity — its ability to rewire itself — means that these patterns aren't permanent. With consistent practice, you can literally change the neural pathways that maintain this cycle.
Why This Matters More Than You Think
Okay, let's get practical. Enough theory.
Neuroscience has come a long way on this topic. We now know that the brain's neuroplasticity — its ability to rewire itself — means that these patterns aren't permanent. With consistent practice, you can literally change the neural pathways that maintain this cycle.
The Practical Part
A 2023 meta-analysis in the Journal of Clinical Psychology looked at this exact question. Here's what they found.
Here's what the data actually says — and I'm going to be more nuanced than the clickbait headlines. A 2024 systematic review looked at 47 studies and found significant but modest effects. Translation: this stuff works, but it's not a miracle cure. You need to pair it with other strategies.
If I could leave you with one thing, it's this: you're not failing at feeling better. You're learning. And learning is messy and slow and frustrating. But it works, eventually, if you keep showing up.
NEHA is here to support your wellness journey, but we always encourage connecting with a licensed professional for ongoing mental health concerns.